[It was a little of both.]

More from ... him, actually. I don't think either of our parents would have really cared one way or another but JJ ... I think he had this whole picture in his head. Didn't really bother to ask if I was on the same page.

[There's a beat as she thinks about how that sounded.]

It's not that I didn't love him, because I did. But ... not like that. Not the way he wanted me to.